Story Behind The Song
This song was born from the realization that peace doesn't require permission. It reflects a journey shaped by early mistakes, hard lessons, and the influence of people who pushed growth instead of excuses. Rather than arguing with critics or reliving setbacks, the lyric reframes judgment as someone else's burden. At its core, "That's On You" is about self-ownership--choosing civility, balance, and forward motion while letting go of what you can't control.
Song Description
"That's On You" is a modern, rhythm-driven track centered on resilience, maturity, and emotional independence. Blending hip-hop cadence with reflective songwriting, the lyric traces a path from reckless youth to grounded self-awareness, emphasizing growth through community, discipline, and inner peace. The repeating hook turns judgment outward and calm inward, delivering a powerful message: disagreement doesn't steal your serenity unless you let it. With vivid metaphors, motivational energy, and a chant-ready chorus, the song feels contemporary, uplifting, and purpose-driven.
| Song Length |
3:41 |
Genre |
R & B - Contemporary, R & B - Soul |
| Tempo |
Medium Fast (131 - 150) |
Lead Vocal |
Male Vocal |
| Mood |
Jovial, In High Spirits |
Subject |
Judgement, Power |
| Similar Artists |
Bruno Mars, Usher |
Language |
English |
| Era |
2000 and later |
| |
Lyrics
THAT'S ON YOU
(Xolani Kacela)
[Verse 1]
Took mom's wheels before I was legal
Crunk up, then sped off in her Beetle
Unwise living that way, had sense 'nuff to pray
Cruisin' and speeding, I needed an escape
[Pre-Chorus]
Bird-by-bird, I found friends of a feather
Flying together facing wind and weather
Grinding go-getters, they made me better
[drum drop]
[Chorus]
Maybe you don't agree with my soliloquy
That's on you, I got peace and tranquility
Maybe you don't want to live with civility
That's on you, I got peace and tranquility
[Hook]
That's on you, ooooo ooooo ooooo oooo
That's on you, ooooo ooooo ooooo oooo
That's on you
[Verse 2]
Born on first base with pain and pressure
Set sight on symptoms, had to suppress 'em
Hitting foul balls and swinging at problems
Had no choice but to solve them
[Pre-Chorus]
Bird-by-bird, I found friends of a feather
Flying together facing wind and weather
Grinding go-getters, they made me better
[drum drop]
[Chorus]
Maybe you don't agree with my soliloquy
That's on you, I got peace and tranquility
Maybe you don't want to live with civility
That's on you, I got peace and tranquility
[Hook]
That's on you, ooooo ooooo ooooo oooo ooooo oooo
That's on you, ooooo ooooo ooooo oooo ooooo oooo
That's on you
[Bridge]
Had dreams crash hard like thunder in the night
Lost my voice, but my soul still held the mic
Every wrong turn still paved my lane
Now I'm flying through the fire, baptized in the rain
[Pre-Chorus]
Bird-by-bird, I found friends of a feather
Flying together facing wind and weather
Grinding go-getters, they made me better
[drum drop]
[Chorus]
Maybe you don't agree with my soliloquy
That's on you, I got peace and tranquility
Maybe you don't want to live with civility
That's on you, I got peace and tranquility
[Hook ascending]
That's on you, ooooo ooooo ooooo oooo ooooo oooo
That's on you, ooooo ooooo ooooo oooo ooooo oooo
That's on you
[Outro]
Living the dream, catch me, I'm on a roll
Light years ahead, just right for a stroll
Live your best life on cruise control
That's on you
[Fade Out]
That's on you, oooo oooo ooooo, that's on you
That's on you, oooo oooo ooooh, that's on you
©2025 Xolani Kacela, ASCAP, xolani.kacela@gmail.com, 919-949-2002