Story Behind The Song

This is the plight of the female musician. What's better for me music or a man. I think I need both and have both

Lyrics

Fantasies

I?ve had my fantasies of being quite well know
But do my realities insist on being home
Well I don?t know which one is better for me
Cause I love my music, but I?d love some company

You can have your music, your music and a man
But sometimes that man, that man don?t understand
He?ll say lay down your music and come lay by me
And how many times did I say no, I?m sorry

I?ve figured out how this can be done
You can?t have one thing and have the other one
So I?ll lay down my music for a little while
And when I?ve laid it all down, I?ll have my baby child

Now you can have your music, your music and a man
And sometimes that man that man he understands
You can have your music and your baby child
And let your fantasies your fantasies? they run so wild